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Just Give Me October

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You think if I wish long and hard enough that

I could just skip over that day on the calendar

That day of gloom in August that severed

my heart.

The day my mama left me.  How lost I felt

Getting the news from my sister……”mommy’s gone!”

Somewhere else the sun was shining, not there,

Not for me.

I fought the tears that were just quivering on the

Brink of my eyelids.

I just wanted another chance to gather memories…

memories I need now,

On days like today when my heart aches

Days when the clouds seem to envelop me

and remembering saps my energy

I keep going over and over in my mind those days

Those hot dog days of summer – Just give me

October when the air is crisp and the days

Are shorter,  I need to change this up

Not ready for her to go I wanted to scream

Hang in there mommy, October is coming

We can celebrate together. Let’s just get pass this

Bump in the road

But that day came much too quickly, that

Dark day in August when it seemed my heart

Stopped beating for a few minutes just trying

to adjust to the hollowness I felt inside.

No words would form

I walked through the corridors of Brooklyn Hospital

For what would be the last time

Taking in the sights and sounds of life – of death

Letting the deepest darkest gloom slowly overtake

My senses.

The days lingered on just like the heat of August

Sometimes I could hardly breathe.

There was no relief in sight. October seemed

Lifetimes away

There was no escaping the heaviness my heart

Felt as I dragged on day after day

Yet something inside me kept pushing, pushing me

Through the routine of the minutes, of the

hours, the day, the days, the months and suddenly

My heart sang – I made it through to October

Time to celebrate all that was, all that is.

And now, the years flash before me

It’s August once again and suddenly it hits me

She’s really gone

How did I get through without her steadiness

In my life?

And after all these years,

I’m still missing my mommy.

6 Responses

  1. Early this morning, I had wept because I was missing my mom. How timely your post! Thanks for sharing. We are blessed!

  2. Oh my those were the most touching sweetest poems I’ve read.
    Just give me October has the tears burning my eyes. Please don’t stop writing. Gives me a chance to stop and realize just how grateful I’am. Miss you Much

  3. I felt this heated slow motion moving of time through the seasons also for a like or similar year before the full realization struck me too- she’s gone, she IS gone…only I wept from February to February waiting on the spring

  4. You did well my friend, you did well. For yourself, yourchildren and your friends (like me). Ms Curry is always alive in your heart Your mom is a part of my past that I carry with me. Sometimes I think about the “egg episode” with Pernell. I can see her face and I laugh out loud.

  5. This was one of the top 5. This touched my heart and I couldn’t read it with stopping to wipe my eyes. Thank you for sharing, And like the other comment, please don’t stop writing. I so look forward to reading them. Miss u

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